Today a friend msn me saying that she think she is turning into a lesbian. In my heart I'm thinking, " WTF? Last week you say you like a guy, now you say you turning Les". I'm worried for her. Is she facing some problem in life that's why she is desperately looking for a partner? I hope everything is fine over at her end. She is a very nice, cute, sweet, friendly & hardworking girl. Hope her Mr Right will appear soon.
Then in the middle of the night(3am), 2 friends ask me out for Kopi. One of them is trying to exit a relationship that just reach a new milestone yesterday. What the hell is wrong with him? Such a nice girl you don't want? I think he just cannot accept her for who she is. I can understand it's not easy but Impossible Is Nothing. Have you really tried? Have a nice chat with her regarding your concern? Or just giving up without trying? I think I'm not in the position to tell him what to do but make sure you will not regret your decision. I think the song below describe her feeling.
Another topic we talked about is "Friendship with an opposite sex". Personally I agreed that friends should be there when in need. But if that friend is attached, shouldn't it become the partner job already? I don't know what to say regarding this topic because I recently lose trust in friendship already. I noticed that a few of my friends only appear when they are in need and will disappear soon after it. Is that really friendship? Can anyone tell me, how to define friendship?